Official Dr. Gary Chapman Test

The 5 Love LanguagesOfficial Assessment by Dr. Gary Chapman

Discover your primary love language with the original assessment created by relationship expert Dr. Gary Chapman, author of the #1 New York Times bestseller "The 5 Love Languages"

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The Official 5 Love Languages® Assessment

Answer 30 carefully crafted questions to discover your primary love language. This assessment has helped millions of people understand how they prefer to give and receive love.

Dr. Gary Chapman's Official Love Language Test

Question 1 of 30

It's more meaningful to me when…

Choose the statement that best describes what makes you feel most loved

About Dr. Gary Chapman

Dr. Gary Chapman is a renowned marriage counselor, speaker, and author who has dedicated his life to helping couples build lasting relationships. His groundbreaking book "The 5 Love Languages®" has transformed millions of relationships worldwide.

Marriage Counselor

40+ years of marriage counseling experience

#1 Bestselling Author

Over 30 million copies sold worldwide

Relationship Expert

Helped millions understand love better

Learn About The 5 Love Languages Book

The 5 Love Languages® Explained

Receiving Gifts

Visual symbols of love that show thoughtfulness and effort

Quality Time

Focused, undivided attention and meaningful moments together

Words of Affirmation

Verbal compliments, appreciation, and encouraging words

Acts of Service

Helpful actions that make life easier and show care

Physical Touch

Appropriate physical contact that conveys love and care

Why Take the Official Dr. Gary Chapman Test?

Scientifically Validated

Based on decades of research and counseling experience by Dr. Gary Chapman, with proven results for millions of relationships.

Accurate Results

Get precise insights into your primary love language with questions designed specifically to reveal your deepest emotional needs.

Transform Relationships

Learn how to express love in ways that truly resonate with your partner, family members, and friends for deeper connections.

Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions about Dr. Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages assessment and how it can help your relationships.

How accurate is this love language test?

This is the official assessment created by Dr. Gary Chapman, based on over 40 years of marriage counseling experience. It has been validated through millions of test-takers and real-world relationship improvements.

How long does the test take?

The assessment takes about 10-15 minutes to complete. There are 30 questions, each asking you to choose between two statements that better describe your preferences for receiving love.

Can this help with all types of relationships?

Yes! While originally designed for romantic relationships, the 5 Love Languages apply to all meaningful relationships including family, friends, and even professional relationships.

Can my love language change over time?

While your primary love language tends to remain consistent, life experiences, relationships, and personal growth can influence your preferences. It's worth retaking the test periodically.

What if my partner has a different love language?

This is actually very common! Understanding each other's different love languages is the key to a stronger relationship. Learn to "speak" your partner's love language for better connection.

How do I use my results?

Share your results with important people in your life and ask them to take the test too. Then practice expressing love in each other's primary languages for stronger relationships.

The Science Behind Dr. Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages

Dr. Gary Chapman's groundbreaking work on the 5 Love Languages stems from over four decades of marriage counseling and relationship research. After observing thousands of couples, Dr. Chapman noticed distinct patterns in how people prefer to express and receive love, leading to the development of this transformative framework.

The concept is based on the idea that while love is universal, the ways we communicate love are not. Each person has a primary "love language" - a preferred way of receiving love that makes them feel most valued and cherished. When partners speak different love languages without realizing it, they may both be expressing love, but neither feels loved.

This official assessment has been refined through extensive research and real-world application. The questions are specifically designed to reveal your deepest emotional needs and help you understand not just your primary love language, but also how to effectively communicate love to others in their preferred language.

What Makes This Assessment Official and Reliable

  • Created by Dr. Gary Chapman, renowned relationship counselor and researcher
  • Based on 40+ years of marriage counseling experience
  • Validated through millions of real-world applications
  • Continuously refined based on research and feedback
  • Scientifically designed questions for accurate results
  • Published research supporting the 5 Love Languages framework

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